Today i have heard many comments about my way of talking and treating people... These all comments are come from an important person and i think that i shud set new targets in the coming year. First, i shud improve my way of talking and the way of response to others' words. Second, i shud be careful in treating other people, dun juz follow my feeling towards a person.
When i first hear about that, i feel very sad coz i sudden feel that my way of talking is not good enough from before. My way of talking and my words will make many people feel hurt. In addition, the way i treat people, i owey follow my feeling in treating a person, if i feel want to be fren with the person and feel wan to treat a person good, i will treat him/her very good without any reasons. I treat people good without consider of whether the person really treat me as a fren.
Before this 3rd semester, i really dun have a good fren in my uni. My fren is only my housemate. I noe n understand that they all treat me very good. But the way i talk and i response to them mebbe owey make them feel hurt (which i din realize at all before).
But this 3rd semester, i have frenz in my class. I've 3 frenz which i owey spend time with. I din expect anything from them, i juz wan to treat my fren good. Mebbe i m too desperate to have frenz in class. So, i treat my fren as good as i can although i m not so sure whether they are treating me in the same way or even though im not so understand them.
This make others think that i m too protect my frenz. Actually i have no idea wat i need to do sometime. Is it wrong to treat others good? What i really need to do? What is the best way of talking and responding? What is the best way of treating others?
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